Could the bystander effect be partially to blame for the lack of anyone intervening in the rape and sexual assault of Rehtaeh Parsons and Audrie Pott while it occurred?
The bystander effect is a psychological phenomenon whereas the more people that are present when a person is in distress, the less likely anyone intervenes to help that person. Both cases involved a young girl being sexually assaulted and raped while at a house party with other teenagers.
Add alcohol to the mix — and the emotionally-based (often poor) judgment associated with the teenage years — and yes, it appears to be the perfect recipe for disaster.
The bystander effect first became popularized in the media in the case of Catherine “Kitty” Genovese. On March 13, 1964, New York City resident 28-year-old Genovese was returning to her home in Queens from work that day. As she approached her apartment entrance in the Kew Gardens neighborhood, she was attacked and stabbed by a man.
About a dozen people in the apartment building had heard the attack (as they later told police) and also heard Genovese’s calls for help. But rather than responding immediately — either by actively helping the victim directly, or by calling the police — nobody did so. It took about a half hour before someone finally picked up the phone and called the police. By the time the police arrived, Genovese was dead.
Dozens of more modern psychology experiments have been conducted to confirm the existence of the bystander effect since then. Modern research finds that, in general, the bystander effect disappears when the situation is perceived as being a dangerous emergency (because others are seen more as potential helpers, not as people who will socially judge or otherwise intervene instead).
But some things make the bystander effect even stronger — making people less likely to intervene when another is in distress — according to researchers Fischer et al. (2011):
- More people present (it’s a linear, direct relationship)
- If most of the people are strangers to one another (as opposed to friends)
- More females present (males appear to be less affected)
We don’t know the makeup of the parties that these two young girls participated in, but if it’s like most teenage parties, it’s safe to guess there was a mix of friends and strangers who didn’t know one another.
While we don’t know if the sexual assaults took place in a bedroom — largely shielded from most party-goers’ view — we do know that in Audrie Pott’s case, one of the photos taken of the assault apparently made the rounds at the party itself. And still nobody apparently did anything to stop it or to help Audrie.
We hope a clear response to these incidents is justice — significant jail time for everyone who participated in the sexual assault and rape. And despite these teens being “just children” (in Audrie Pott’s case, the perpetrators were 16 year olds), their names should also be released to the public.
There is no better justice than ensuring that the public never forgets the identify of these criminals, and what they did to helpless girls — both of whom ended up taking their own lives.
And listen up if you’re a teen — do not let this happen again. If you see something that you know is wrong — stop it. Get others to help you stop it. Call the police if you need to. Do not be a victim of the bystander effect — take charge, take action, and let’s prevent these horrible incidents from ever occurring again in the future.
Reference
Fischer, Peter Krueger, Joachim I. Greitemeyer, Tobias Vogrincic, Claudia Kastenmüller, Andreas Frey, Dieter Heene, Moritz Wicher, Magdalena Kainbacher, Martina. (2011). The bystander-effect: A meta-analytic review on bystander intervention in dangerous and non-dangerous emergencies. Psychological Bulletin, 137, 517-537.
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Evil thrives when good men, or women, lie silent.
That story from almost 50 years ago is still disturbing to hear again. How many people heard her screams and then could live with themselves by not acting?
Zero tolerance for abuse, this is an adage I share with any patient willing and interested to hear it when they are in the office. There are some extreme attitudes to life, and any tolerance of abuse has to be refuted. Either by one or against one!
Oh, but we continue to reelect politicians who seem to excel at being abusive, and everyone seems to just shrug or look the other way.
Wiener is going to run for Mayor of New York? Wow, now I understand the adage “New York Minute”!
I was raped at a party in front of at least 10-15 people when I was a teen. None of them helped, or helped afterwards. It is because they were unaware that what they were watching was rape. I wasn’t physically or vocally struggling, I was too scared. I had said no, four or five times, not with a lot of force. Then I stopped fighting, for reasons that are complicated. So, I believe they saw a girl who eventually just acquiesced
We need to teach our children what rape is, in all forms. It is not just conventional sex, fingering, oral sex etc can all be rape too. Instead of No means No, we should teach only yes means yes. We need to teach our young teens, that if consent is at all gray that they clarify with their partner that they are comfortable. The message should be clear do not proceed, if your partner is unsure. We need to teach our teens that if your gut says something is wrong, talk to ANYONE about what you saw. Lets be real, teens aren’t going to call the police after they’ve been a party drinking/and possibly doing drugs. Teachers may be a great outlet here.
This is an American phenomena. Americans have this attitude of not wanting to get involved. Its selfish and degusting. In most other civilised nations people do get involved and try to stop the crime.
in my experience it has more to do with the idea that if a female drinks or drinks too much, she deserves what happens to her. I’ve seen many a n inebriated woman left by friends because she was intoxicated. the amount of Ill will people display towards a woman who has drank too much is mind boggling.
I also think it has to do with stigma. I routinely call police when I cannot talk strangers out of drinking and driving. everyone around me is disgusted I would “call the cops”
no it’s world wide. http://blsciblogs.baruch.cuny.edu/soc1005summer/2012/08/02/the-bystander-effect/
there are instances I can think of from China with a toddler hit by a car on video, as well as specific incidents in Russia, France, UK, Mexico, Argentina, Canada, and the U.S.
Why isn’t it the norm that the teenage girls who were (the alleged) friends and classmates of Audrie & Rehash weren’t up in arms with outrage about these assaults? If course I know and understand the answer to this, they are not mature enough yet. At what age do those feelings begin? Can that tendency be cultivated to start sooner? Generally, as adults, women look out for other women. If that were the case in high schools I think peer pressure would, to some degree, keep boys from committing these types of assaults and everyone from spreading pictures of them on social media. Imagine if after this happened, all the girls got together at school and took a big, public stand asking the adults what they were going to do about it? What if the boys could anticipate ALL their female classmates taking a stand against them? If the girls at this party knew their female peers would see them in a negative light, maybe they’d have banded together and stepped in.
Pretty white women victims suddenly make everyone outraged even though this happens a lot.